Does vacation mean getting away at any cost, and slamming down the plastic to charge tickets, hotel and other costs? Or does vacation mean–no way I can afford one. Maybe it’s time to rethink what vacation possibilities are available without running up credit card debt or staying at home. See a Rich Chick story below, and get ready for change! Rich Chicks
How to Have a Truly Freeing Vacation
by Patsy Keech
As spring break and summer nears your thoughts may turn to vacation. If you were going to write a list of words that describes VACATION what would you include?
For most of my adult life some of those words would have been: shouldn’t be doing this, guilt, can’t afford it. And then as the departure date would arrive, I would work myself into such a state of frenzy that I always left home with a heavy heart. I never felt that carefree, light-hearted joyfulness that I saw everyone else had when taking vacations. I thought for a long while that I was just one of those people who didn’t like vacations. Sure I would have fun while I was there – but a sense of guilt loomed over the trip as I knew we would be paying for everything for months– with interest.
A few years ago my sister and parents decided to go to Ireland. Even though I knew going to Ireland with my Irish father to meet up with his relatives was the trip of a lifetime, I just knew I couldn’t afford to go, so I didn’t plan on it.
Six months before they were going I remember telling my husband that I knew not making this trip with my family would be something I would regret my entire life. I had to find a way to go! This wasn’t just a trip, this was now a mission. As I looked at the calendar I realized that one of the months included an extra payday – that would pay for one plane ticket. My husband received some retro pay from his contract settling – that paid for another ticket. Now we just needed to save for lodging, food and a rental car. We did some research on prices, places to stay, and came up with a trip budget. Then when we had saved enough money to pay for that budget item we would it cross off the list. It was so fun, and freeing. By the time we left the states – everything on our trip was paid for. For the first time in my life, I felt immense joy and pride around this vacation. I discovered that planning ahead and setting goals prior to the journey was an exciting part of the trip. It allowed me to be truly free – I EARNED the vacation.
That was just the beginning – we have taken two other family trips since, both of which were completely paid for before we left town.
I challenge you to write your own list of words that come to mind when you think of the word vacation. For me – if freedom is not on my list, then I will just wait and save until I can add it before I take off again.
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